To children who successfully navigate a lifetime of change, the world is a garden of exotic gifts, a house of treasure to explore and take in. Transferred from place to place, young and porous, global nomad children collect and absorb experiences. Their personalities become amalgams of those cultures they internalize and claim as their own. Perched for a while in a new environment, they experience each move as an occasion for growth, a chance to blossom in new ways.
From – Unrooted Childhoods -“ Memories of Growing Up Global
Out of the Vault
Not Wanting to be at the International School
It all started 16 months ago. Izzat walked into my international school. He did not want to be here. He had moved to a strange country. He did not speak English, and he wanted to be safe at home with his Mommy. He was five years old. This was his first school experience, and he was 5,000 miles away from what he had called home.
Izzat’s parents were eager to fit into their new location, and they wanted their son to fit into school. Izzat was scared he didn’t want to be here.
We spent the first ten days of the school year joined at the hip. Or I should say, as long as Izzat could hold my hand or my leg as we walked around the campus trying to do my counseling job. Many of the other students asked if he was my son.
I could get Izzat to go to recess because he liked to play with the balls. I could get him to go to lunch because he was hungry. As far as going to class, he had not bought into the fact that school meant ‘learning.’ He didn’t understand that school meant doing what the teacher wanted and being with a whole bunch of other kids his age.
Finally, he decided to like the smaller English as a Second Language class, and I was able to have periods of time in my office without Izzat. His parents were wonderful, but they did not know how to help him. His teachers were excellent, but they could not get him to stop coming to my office whenever he got stressed or confused. They were wonderful, but he just was not comfortable in their environment. His peers wanted to support him and help him, but he often would run away from them and seek me out.
It was a very long time to get Izzat comfortable enough to stay with his peers. We gradually went from mastering the comfortable zone of one activity towards another one. We were blessed that the Physical Education teacher asked Izzat to stay longer and help with the other classes where there were other five years old peers. This free time allowed me actually to see some of the other kids I was serving. Slowly the need to be by my side was replaced to be near the other adults in his school day. Gradually his ability to communicate in English became stronger.
When it was time for Izzat to start school his next September at our school, he acted like a real pro. He only stopped by once in a while to chat.
But That First Week of December was a Sad Time for Me.
Izzat ran across the playground, yelling in English for his friend to stop. Izzat said, “Wait for me!”
He grabbed my hand and squeezed it and then it quickly it became a full body hug. It was quick but intense.
He said, “Ms. Julia, I am moving to a new school.”
I replied, “I will miss you, when will you leave?”
Izzat proudly stated, “Before Christmas.”
Then he ran away to play with his friend as I turned to go into my office. He ran back. “I will really miss you.”
He was a child that has mastered making friends, learning a new language, being a risk taker and being bold. At our school, he had many houses of treasure to explore and take in. As he moved to his new school, I hope he took the lessons he had learned here. He had successfully navigated a lifetime of change in just 16 short months.
Christmas is always an interesting to time to reconnect with family and friends. Sometimes, when I least expect it, I get a note from parents I have worked with or from their children. Today as I was searching for a unique Christmas decoration, I ran into the letter I got from Izzat when he was going to get ready for his last semester in High School. I remember his small hand tightly clutching mine, and I wonder how big and strong his hands are today.
Being an American who has lived in many different countries, I have always tried to explain the USA holiday of Thanksgiving. It is one of my favorite holidays because it incorporates two things I hold very dear to my heart – Family and Food.
I like that it is not a gift-giving holiday.
I like that it is not a religious holiday, people of all faiths can join in the celebration.
To me, it is a celebration of gratitude.
Gratitude is the best attitude. – Author Unknown.
I like the family traditions we have at Thanksgiving. I love that some things always stay the same. We still have turkey even if we have to pay too much for it. My brother, Jeff who lives in Missouri is always amazed at how much you have to pay for a turkey in places like Indonesia, Nigeria, or American Samoa. Turkey’s are just not grown in many areas in the world and when you have to throw in freezing containers floating around the world or air shipments – the costs are just sky high. I have been known to put a whole frozen turkey in a suitcase just to get one in the country we are currently living in at that time! Not much room in the suitcase for other items but well worth it for the family tradition.
I’ve made pumpkin pies from scratch in places where you can’t get our favorite Libby’s pumpkin puree. It is several day processes for me when you have to start with a whole garden pumpkin. I love the convenience, consistent flavor and texture of canned pumpkin even if it is mostly “squash’!
Some canned “pumpkin” puree is made from one or more types of winter squash, like butternut, Hubbard, Boston Marrow, and Golden Delicious. These squash varieties can be less stringy and richer in sweetness and color than pumpkin. The USDA is pretty lenient with its distinction between pumpkin and squash.
Often in the summer on my annual home leave, I’d buy Libby’s brand of canned pumpkin and throw it into our suitcase, so I’d have my Thanksgiving pie! Libby’s use a strain of Dickinson Pumpkins, with exceptionally creamy flesh that the company developed themselves. This variety of pumpkin resembles a butternut-squash, not the orange pumpkin we have for Halloween jack-o-lanterns.
Sometimes it is impossible to get Crisco in the countries we have lived in. I like the crust of my pumpkin pie to be flaky. I watched my Grandma Wright use Crisco (vegetable shortening), Flour, Salt, Water, Vinegar, and Egg to make perfect pies. This is the only way I know how to make a good pie. Ree, The Pioneer Woman, uses a similar recipe. So believe it or not, Crisco has also found its way into my luggage. So far I have only had to try and explain why I am bringing these items into a country one time. By the time I got to pie crust . . . The customs official was waving me through the line. I am not sure what I would have said or done if they had taken my Thanksgiving stash.
My favorite Zen Holiday Story about giving thanks
A wise woman who was traveling in the mountains found a precious stone in a stream. The next day she met another traveler who was hungry, and the wise woman opened her bag to share her food.
The hungry traveler saw the precious stone and asked the woman to give it to him. She did so without hesitation. The traveler left, rejoicing in his good fortune. He knew the stone was worth enough to give him security for a lifetime.
But a few days later he came back to return the stone to the wise woman.
“I’ve been thinking,” he said, “I know how valuable the stone is, but I give it back in the hope that you can give me something even more precious. Give me what you have within you that enabled you to give me the stone.”
Giving thanks far away from family
Then: Bundle up it was always cold and drive across Logan County to Grandma’s house. Over the river and through the woods and all that sort of stuff.
Now: Glad, our child in is Hawaii enjoying life with Kylie. Glad the other child will not be celebrating but working with a host of new friends in India. Happy that Kevin and I will have made the perfect Thanksgiving Feast – even if it might just be pizza and a beer in front of the TV this year since we will be without family.
At one Thanksgiving, it would have been our child’s first ever USA Thanksgiving. While living in college and not near family, I searched and searched for a restaurant that would deliver a feast to her college apartment. Most nice places have a buffet for important events like Thanksgiving, Christmas or New Years. After hearing my ‘sad story’ about it being her first and only USA Thanksgiving in the USA and being alone– my wish was honored. TheBriarwood Inn supplied a feast for my child. It is hard to know how much a person might eat at a buffet and there was no way to determine that. My child reported that not only was it a feast there were tons of leftovers, and that is what makes Thanksgiving unique for a college kid. Or all of us. Right.
Last year while in Honolulu we had the Royal Hawaiian (hotel) Thanksgiving to go! We made Thanksgiving hassle-free that year with their Thanksgiving To-Go package, featuring a Kiawe Smoked Turkey, Sourdough Stuffing, Cheesy Herb Mashed Potatoes, Pumpkin Pecan Pie, and more. The meal feeds up to 15 people. Of course, we took it up to our son’s apartment so his friends could enjoy the feast! We asked them to bring their chairs and silverware. Thank goodness for paper plates!
Thanksgiving past and present
I am grateful for all the Thanksgiving feasts I have had. Starting with the ones at Grandma Wright’s Kansas farmhouse to this one in Incline Village, NV. At first, all my memories of Thanksgiving were only about family members. Often we had a whole room full of tables and family sharing the feast. Then it moved to Thanksgiving with college friends and on to Thanksgiving with international teachers. Then a few years of Kevin and I were sharing the dinner with friends. Finally, my own family and an ongoing list of expats sharing the feast.
I wish I had taken pictures of the faces of people who shared my table at every Thanksgiving to have as a slideshow of memories. Besides a whole host of beautiful people and their smiling faces, it would show some interesting things. It would explain the massive tuna that the young teachers put on the BBQ in Samoa to go with the roast turkey.
It would show my Mom cooking gravy in a “fry baby” in Hawaii since my college apartment didn’t have a lot of kitchen items. All of our guests had to bring their plates and silverware since we only had a set of three odds and ends.
As always, our family will be missing our mother at the holidays, but we will remember fondly how she so effortlessly made a huge meal year after year for all of us and any friends we wanted to bring along.
Those past photos would have shown the beautiful name tags my kids made one year. It would show the straw turkey Jackie painted with her Grandma Simens. It would show friends from around the world. It would show my family. It would also show our quasi-families!
Expats create quasi-family for Thanksgiving
Enjoy your time with friends – If you are an expat create a quasi-family and enjoy the holiday.
Zesho Susan O’Connell speaks about Thanksgiving, and she does it well.
“The greatest gift is to give. We can give gratitude; we can give sustenance to body and mind, we can give fearlessness. The wheel of giving and receiving keeps our hearts open and warm. And a warm and open heart is the source of courage – the courage to sit still in the midst of our constantly changing, challenging lives. Wisdom emerges from this stillness — and informs the style and content of our giving. Give with no expectation of return. Give wholeheartedly, and if you realize you are holding back, give yourself kindness and understanding. Give each out-breath to the benefit of the world.“
What is your favorite Thanksgiving memory? Why are these memories important?
I am often asked, “How can we identify risk factors for our children, so potential problems are minimized?”
My Top Three:
Family is the key
Knowing your ‘emotions’ is essential
Family memories and family traditions build strong kids
Do emotions help make more ethical decisions?
I believe they do. If the child cannot understand their emotions or tune into the emotions of others in their family or with peers, this is a huge risk. If the child is unable to make ethical decisions, they are a risk to themselves and a danger to society.
If the child does not have a sense of “family” this is a huge risk. The impact of a strong family identity and the connectedness factor is often long lasting, giving messages to the child that they are loved and accepted and belong to a wider network of people who matter.
It is my perception that no child is immune from pressure in our current, fast-paced, stressed filled environment so families have to be aware that at any time in their life a child might need help and support. They need to cope better with everyday challenges and be able to bounce back from disappointments. The concept of resilience is straightforward if you think about kids needing to thrive emotionally, behaviorally, academically and interpersonally. Families need to use Thanksgiving as a time to connect.
Cross- cultural impact of this holiday
I often tell parents that their perspective on an event is not the same as their child’s. Sometimes the smallest things can be misunderstood. Every year, as a family, we try to do the traditional turkey and stuffing as we celebrate this event. Imagine my confusion when one of my children wrote in a school journal!
“My favrit Thanksgivn dinr is turkey stufed with tacos” or translated into adult-speak…
“My favorite Thanksgiving dinner is turkey stuffed with tacos.”
What I commonly called my “Thanksgiving stuffing” was full of great things. Besides the usual bread and chopped onions simmered in butter, it had celery, sage, and sausage. Living in a Muslim country for most of their young lives, ground pork or sausage was not very often served in our home. We did have our fair share of tacos with ground beef. It made complete sense to my child that we had tacos inside that big old bird!
I often decorate things to make the special event even more ‘unique.’ I have been known to put candy fall leaves on my sugar cubes. I have made little stocks of wheat out of vegetables and sunflower seeds. I have even written names on brussel sprouts just for the fun of it. I wonder what my kids wrote about those traditions? Or if the teacher even believed that was what happened at our home on Thanksgiving.
Sometimes you read something that needs to be sent out to the large population. This statement from Gulley needs to be heard.
“Some things are just silly. We require schools to teach family values. We demand that politicians legislate family values. We even expect Hollywood to promote family values. Everyone is supposed to instill family values, except for families.”
Let’s take it from the top. Schools are here to educate. Politicians are here to govern. Hollywood is here to make money. But families are here to nurture, to love, to support, and (dare I say it?) instills values.
So how do we pass on values? We practice them as parents. Simple. But hard. Consistency is the key.
If you want to teach peace, model forgiveness.
If you want to teach abstinence from drugs, empty your liquor cabinet.
If you want to teach integrity, keep your word.
If you want to teach thrift, practice simplicity.
If you want to teach sexual purity, don’t cheat on your spouse.
If you want to teach compassion, rein in your judgment.
If you want to teach mercy, be merciful.”
By Philip Gulley
As expats we often don’t have a stable ‘family porch’ but the fact is, the whole world is our front porch.
As we sit around the world with a multitude of other families, we can quickly pick and choose what family values we want to hold dear to our hearts and instill in our children.
What we must do as expats are to surround our children with adults that share our values and will help us give a voice to these values, so they make sense to the children.
Technology makes it easy for us to keep in touch with our extended family and this is very special to our global nomads. We need to give our children face to face time with other caring adults as we move around the world. Your job as a parent is to seek out these adults. They are often in roles of teachers, coaches, neighbors and your peers in your work environment. Invite them to spend time with you and your family.
When I lived abroad and got ready to celebrate another international Halloween…I needed to get all my ducks (or pumpkins) in a row. This was always hard when living in a new country or location and you are trying to celebrate American Halloween for the first time in that place.
When witches go riding, and black cats are seen, the moon laughs and whispers. Tis near Halloween.
I realize it is now October 31st, but for many expats, the planning of Halloween started long before October. Some people put things into their suitcases from this past summer holiday in plans for the upcoming Halloween. Others command the suitcase space of their traveling spouse to ensure that treats are in their new home country before this candy loaded holiday.
What I hadn’t realized is how this impacts places like Canada. This photo was taken on July 31st at a sale at Loblaws in Westboro, Ottawa. This means there were only 92 more shopping days left before Halloween.
When many Expats move, they have this vision that they can build up their lives into some nicely sugar-coated layered experience. They want to blend their home culture into their new culture.
Making layer after layer build up into a wonderful, beautiful experience for the whole family. They are just like kids going trick and treating, they want all their old and favorite candies in their tick and treat bags along with some new and exotic candies.
They want to cling on to some of their background, their history, and their Halloween rituals.
Expectations are hard to meet!
Parents need to be careful and connect with what is unique about this holiday for your family. As an expat, you can easily get sidetracked and forget what is most important for your family. You get worried about your child’s interactions. You worry about the exposure your child has to something different from his or her home environment. You fear that your child will miss out!
I have talked to a lot of five-year-olds and their parents from around the world. Here are a few things I have been told about Halloween. Remember my sources are five-year-olds!
Austria – We leave bread and water out at night for the dead people.
Belgium – We light candles for dead people in our family.
Canada – The best part is the Jack O’Lanterns!
China – ‘Teng Chieh’ we put food and water by the photos of our dead family. We have lots of lanterns.
Czechoslovakia – We put one chair by the fire for each person in our family, even the dead people.
England – Our pumpkins or ‘punkies’ are made out of large beets. We sing a ‘Punkie Night Song.’
France – We also see pumpkins at McDonald’s near Halloween. We are all ‘scary’ not ‘fairy princesses.’ We get treats in the stores, not at your home.
Germany – We have to be careful on Halloween, and we can’t use knives.
Hong Kong – ‘Yue Lan’ (Festival of the Hungry Ghosts) It is about spirits!
Ireland – it is just like in the USA. We do costumes and go trick-or-treating. We play ‘snap-apple,’ (an apple on a string and you try to bite it) and ‘knock-a dolly’ (where you ring the doorbell and run away).
Indonesia – We don’t have Halloween, but we like candy.
Japan – We don’t have this Halloween. We have ‘Obon Festival’ with our dead family members. We clean the house and the graves. It is in July.
Korea – We have ‘Chusok.’ It is in August, we visit our dead family and take them rice or fruit.
Spain – We have ‘El Dia de Los Muertos’ (days of the dead), but it is a happy celebration. We go to the grave and have a picnic. We have parades.
Sweden – We have ‘alla Helgons Dag.’ We get to have a vacation day from school.
But this is our life, and as Expats, we try to fit into the host country, but most American’s want their children to get scared, overindulge in candy, wear costumes and even let the local children have this holiday.
Family rituals are important
Children tend to love family rituals, even if they don’t admit it. Rituals provide a sense of security and can be soothing. A family ritual is anything your family does together deliberately. The routine of whatever you do is what counts. It can be anything. Just make sure you do it consistently.
Ritualsare emotionally enriching. It is never too late to start a ritual.
Some children may resist being involved in such rituals. But if routines are presented in a non-controlling manner, and you manage your expectations, all family members will ‘get on board’ much more readily than you thought.
I have worked with many families that want to start building closer family time, and sometimes the rituals begin with just one person, but if that person feels it is essential and keeps trying sooner or later, the event can become a ritual.
Sometimes the ritual comes from having another culture in your life
We have often celebrated Halloween over the top! In Duri, Indonesia the expat engineers took over one of the houses on camp and made a truly ‘scary house’ for all of us to experience. I am not sure who had more fun the adults making the house or the kids going through it.
When you let a group of engineers take over the event, it can be way over the top!
I thought the eels in the stairwell with plexiglass that you walked over them was a great touch! The pig’s head that moved in and out of the toilet scared me; I can’t imagine what it did to my seven-year-old. The electrical engineers did a great job with the lights and sounds. What took the engineers two full days to complete allowed all of us to be like kids again on that Halloween night.
Years later, I wonder if people are still calling that one home the haunted house? I know the family that moved into it only a few weeks after Halloween. They had no idea what it took to get their empty house back to normal.
Some of my highlights of Halloween living overseas with our young children were carving our pumpkins –
One time our pumpkin was a green coconut! We have used Cassava Root to be a pumpkin in Indonesia. We used a Taro root as our pumpkin in Nigeria. Now that was a scary ‘pumpkin.’
We have made sure that our unique global situations allowed us to still have Jack o’ Lanterns that are uniquely ours. It has become a family ritual.
How do you respond? Please tell me you are not one of those parents that say, “No honey, you are not ugly.”
Kids love to announce that they are not good at something. They usually do it just after they try something new and challenging, and they say it with finality as if issuing a verdict. I’m not good at math! I’m not good at volleyball. They also like to throw out “I’m ugly” or “I’m fat” or “I’m not macho”.
At that moment, your parental instinct is to fix the situation.
You say, “Oh yes you are!”
HINT – This never works.
You have just put your kid in the position of actively defending his or her ineptitude. It is a lose-lose. As a parent ignore the instinct to fix things. We often use a word that works for the moment, but it is not the correct word or not the word that really marks how we really feel. Yet, this is how our children learn how to express their emotions.
Since we are global nomads and often move, I would use that time to voice how I was feeling and allowed my children to express how the move was making them feel. It was always an interesting time since family members are seldom on the same emotional wavelength when it comes to moving. Our timing was often off.
Model this for your children when you are in the moving process! Imagine how much they would learn about emotions.
When you have a child that proudly voices they are dumb, ugly, or unable to do something. Simply add the word “yet”.
Add the “yet” in a matter-of-fact tone – “I am not good at math”, becomes “You are not good at math yet.”
“I am not good at volleyball” becomes “You are not good at volleyball yet.”
The message is: Of course you are not good ” because you haven’t worked at it. But when you do, you will be good.
I’m sure some teens roll their eyes when they hear it. But I also think it has an effect because it tells a clear story about the value of effort and struggle, and that story is aligned with the way the brain grows.
Word cards are helpful even at home
When I worked in kindergarten classrooms, I would often make “word family cards”. I would show the kids how we can go from “Beautiful to Ugly” or voice our opinions about a peer’s artwork without hurting our friend’s feeling. We were still being honest with our feelings. If we didn’t really like something we would be comfortable with saying, “Your picture is fine.” Everyone knew this meant it was not beautiful and not ugly. Kids were always happy to get honest feedback.
I was always proud to hear a five-year-old tell another child that this painting was magnificent! Some of my students would love to hear that their horror picture was revolting!
What I loved the most was seeing a child sorting out the cards to pick out the exact word he wanted to use. In the “Beautiful to Ugly” card set, I used a pack of old playing cards and glued a word on each card. I then numbered them in order so the kids could understand how one word might be more in line if what they wanted to say or the next word choice might be better. Some classes might only need a few cards to understand that word choice is important. Then add more cards later on in the school year.
Build up your child’s word choice
If your child is often stuck on one word. “Gross”, “Bummer’, “Dork” or “Neat” were common during my growing up years. Heard “Oogly” lately? “Sick” or “Flop”? JOMO seems like a great thing to me.
If you have a hard decision to make or your child is trying to make a decision – PLEASE check out the chart above. It is a helpful emotion and feelings words to give you a way to categorize how you are feeling about that decision. What a great gift to give to your child, time to help them work through how they are feeling. If they don’t want to do it with you…pick out a personal situation that you are going through or have gone through and just show them how you were feeling at that time. Show them this chart and then give them space. They might appreciate you – even if they never tell you!
As a child, adolescent and family therapist the issue of child safety and privacy is often a topic in my discussions with families. Everyone needs to have privacy, but it is a fine line between safety and
the guidance that will make a child and a parent feel comfortable.
I encourage families to use the Webster Dictionary definition of
privacy “the quality or state of being apart from company and
observation.” Privacy in this way means ‘down time’ and ‘alone
time.’ With eight and nine-year-olds, it also means in a safe
environment such as their bedroom or alone in the family room.
Privacy does not mean having a playmate over and ‘Mom can’t come into the room.’ Play with peers is not an area that needs privacy at
this age; adult supervision can still be necessary.
Privacy does not mean being online.
Being connected should always be
in an area where the adult can observe, interact and supervise with
children the ages of eight and nine. I encourage all computers to be in a
public area of the house. Also, a bedroom computer can interfere with
Children do need the time to ‘not be accountable’ for the time or just
the space to sit, think and do nothing. Sometimes play is not really to play; it is just a calming activity that a child enjoys. Parents asking “What did you make?”, “What legos did you build?” and “What books did you read?” can cause the child to be under-stress even in their downtime.
Kids need to play. Kids need to have free time. Kids need to have downtime.
After so many parents came into my office complaining about the relationship between their children. Fighting. Fighting. Fighting. I always tell the parents to rethink the fighting. Siblings who simply ignore each other and have less fighting – their relationship remains cold and distant in the long term.
As we age, it is important that our children remain in contact with each other
Dr. DeHart at New York College compared how four-year-old children treat their younger siblings versus their best friends. The kids made seven times as many negative and controlling statements to their siblings as they did to friends.
Parents can help an older child see how they treat siblings by asking a simple question. “Would you say that to your friend?” and let the child reflect on that.
Parents can also show their kids photos from the past where they looked like they were having fun and enjoying each others company. Remind them that they can connect without fighting.
With school now in full swing for many families, I wonder if any of you have lost it? Yelled when they should not have? Walked away in the middle of conversations with their children?
Of all the families I have worked with I have always had parents share one time they “lost it”.
I think we owe it to ourselves to prepare our children for times when
we might not act as expected or we might need them to understand. I
call these ‘teachable moments’ that happen before you actually lose it.
1. You see a Mom yelling and yelling at her kids don’t just quickly
walk by and pretend it did not happen. Go to a place far enough away
from the scene so you can talk to your own child and ask “What do you
think is going on there?” Then have a discussion on why a parent might
behave that way.
2. TV is also a great place to see abnormal behavior so talk about
what you are both seeing. When the young star comes home pregnant and
the mom just smiles ask your child “What do you think your best
friend’s Mom might say or do?” “What do you think might say?”
3. When you see a person getting medical attention don’t hurry your
child by. Just slowly walk away, and then later talk about the situation. “What
happened to her kids?”, “What do you think was the most important that
that child could have done in that situation?” “What would you do if
Mommy fainted at the Mall?”
Travel, Stress and Me
I have traveled around the world so many times with my own two
children that they have had lots of teachable moments because travel
tends to bring out the worse in some people. Use those moments to
show your children that humans have different behaviors according to
the emotions they are feeling. They only thing you can do as a human
is to really understand your emotions and how your actions cause
reactions in others.
One time I thought I was going to pass out in a major overseas airport
and I said to my son that I was feeling really sick. He replied,
“Don’t worry Mom, I will be sure to grab your purse because it has our
passports and you won’t want it to get lost.” Smart boy.
After the fact as parents, we must always be responsible for our
actions. The best way to address this is not to apologize for our
actions but to tell our kids “Mommy wishes that I would have done
this or this instead, I am sorry I didn’t respond like I wanted to at
the moment.” You need to model appropriate behavior on what to do if
you happen to blow an interaction. This is the best way for children
to learn to be honest about their feelings and yet responsible enough
for their actions.
If other conferences have left you a little-disillusioned then attending #FIGT2019 is a must!
#FIGT2019 is an incredible event where you meet loads of new connections, personally grow and speak to experts in the field of global movement around the world. There is still time to submit a proposal or even get a scholarship to attend #figt2019
I feel magic happens when insightful people hang out and share what they are working on right now. So to help convince you that this is the conference you need to be at, I have come up with 19 reasons why you should head over to Bangkok and join us at FIGT.
1. You’ll know about new research before anyone else.
FIGT has woven research throughout the whole conference. There is always very cutting edge research shared. The researchers ask you to give feedback and next steps.
2. You can choose your learning adventure by picking which sessions you want to attend.
Several days of incredible conversations! There are many concurrent sessions across the days, showcasing so many stories. Get specific on your goals, then design your learning adventure.
3. It’s for the global population, by the worldwide community.
The FIGT board has unparalleled expertize in supporting people around the world.
4. FIGT attendees are global experts.
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FIGT has been going on for 20+ years now. It is compelling and engaging. You will be welcomed by people who are genuinely glad to see you.
5. A lot of opportunities to make new best friends.
FIGT is renowned for the potential of meeting new connections, bringing new resources into your projects, or even starting new ideas. I know FIGT is one of the best events to connect with others authentically.
6. You are the expert.
Every presenter will end their presentation with a Q & A and ask the group for input. Your opinion and experience matters. You can gather around the central conference area for sessions to hear from people sharing their passion. Mixing younger and tenured presenters also provide a unique opportunity for mentoring among participants.
7. It’s enjoyable so bring your team – this enables greater knowledge absorption.
There are welcome receptions, snacks, there are food stations, and there’s entertainment. FIGT believes learning and sharing should be fun.
As a team, employees can talk about and plan around a strategy for the event. Having a larger group attend #FIGT also allows individuals to take a ‘divide and conquer’ approach to the program, share notes and explore resources that might be otherwise missed. It also encourages a dialog around the sessions, speakers, and topics that will likely lead to a greater overall understanding and appreciation for the content.
8. Great speakers.
Many of the speakers you have heard of before, but they also have many you haven’t heard of before. I love that and think of them as our anonymous extraordinaires. Everyone who takes the stage is working on something tangible to improve the lives of the global population.
9. It’s affordable.
I believe in the power of opportunity amplified through great professional contacts. FIGT can make a significant impact on your life. Some people only attend one day, but for many, we participate in the whole conference.
After a full day – Get ready to do it all again. Different speakers, lots of side surprises and healthy snacks to keep you going. It doesn’t matter what stage of relocation you’re involved in; there’s something for every attendee in every session each day of #FIGT2019.
Financially speaking, it often feels like an expensive proposition to send a large group of people to a conference. But in truth, sending a team will help cut professional development cost in the long run for organizations committed to providing annual opportunities for their employees. Additionally, FIGT will offer discounted registration rates for groups.
10. It’s optimistic and focusses on the great work happening around the world.
Everyone is a legend at FIGT. It’s like a big family gathering. A respect-filled room full of people who love global lives, love change and respect each other. What you will hear are beautiful, hopeful stories of making lives better for people across the world.
11. FIGT helps solidify learning and professional growth.
FIGT believes in what they are doing, and so this is an event full of character. Some people say, “You’ll be a better person as a result of attending this event.”
Attending #FIGT2019 is a powerful way to develop new skills, catch up on the latest trends, spark inspiration, rekindle passion, hear from experts and more.
12. A global gathering.
You can make powerful connections, engage with professionals in curated small group sessions, experience innovations, learn a considerable amount, and of course do it all while having a great time.
13. It’s in one of the most magnificent cities in the world.
Our friends at NIST have partnered with FIGT to make sure you have a brilliant few days immersed in the city I love too. Bangkok can be a magical place.
The Temple of Dawn, Wat Arun is located on the west bank of the Chao Phraya River, opposite the Grand Palace. It is a must-see sight in Bangkok as the architectural design is unique to that of the other temples in Thailand’s capital. Don’t forget The Grand Palace. It was built in 1782 and once the home of the Thai King, the royal court and the administrative seat of government, Bangkok’s Grand Palace is the most glorified and world-renowned landmark in the capital.
Throw in Soi Cowboy and Khao San Road for people who want a fun nightlife, and you can see why Bangkok ranks as a must visit location!
14. FIGT is personable, and they do good.
Everyone zealously works toward bettering the conditions under which others live around the world. We look to amplify the impact of organizations that are showcased at FIGT. Our members will be sharing their stories, and you can find out how you can work with them to improve outcomes in your personal and professional life.
15. We all love to travel, so it is easy to share your current situation and location.
Some members travel from as far away from Asia as you can image. Some people can ride the water taxi to the conference since they live near the Chao Phraya River. Everyone has a story to share that involves travel. So that is a win!
Yep. Tea. Or coffee or Cha Yen (Thai iced tea), whatever is your standard go to drink in the morning. Grab it and join in the fun.
17. It’s the best gathering of “globals” in the world.
FIGT make participants feel amazing. Get excited by the people and stories in the room, remember to make it personal and have a fantastic time. Attend the conference with your team to strengthen your company culture and foster team-building. FIGT will help inspire shared excitement and passion around work-related topics.
18. We’ve got heaps of home-grown talent.
I will be excited to see which experts show up from Asia; I hope to hear from all the educators around Bangkok. NIST International School in Bangkok, where #FIGT2019 will be held is a school that recognizes the impact of global transitions and aims to help its students build resilience for these transitions. Additional schools in the greater Bangkok area should also highlight all the great work they do with their global population.
19. It’s the one conference that you make plans to attend the next year while you are still in this year’s conference.
Personal Highlights of past #FIGT conferences
FIGT16 – “Moving Across Cultures: Bringing Empathy and Expertise to the Evolving Global Family” Julia Simens panel Stories you need to tell