Kansas Day commemorates the admission of the state as the 34th in the Union ( USA) on January 29, 1861. Schools have been marking the anniversary since 1877 by learning more about their state’s history.
The Simens family of four have been celebrating Kansas Day for many years – Why? I spent the first 18 years of my life in northwest Kansas. It is part of me. I wanted to keep this part of my history in my life. I have held Kansas day parties in American Samoa, Singapore, Australia, Indonesia, Nigeria, Thailand, Honduras, as well as in California, Hawaii, and Texas. BUT, I have never held a Kansas Day party in Kansas.
Words of Wisdom
Global families often wonder what holidays to celebrate. They wonder what should be important for their children to have memories of or what events they should celebrate. Selecting holidays is never an easy decision especially in our cross-cultural families or for our families that have lived in a variety of locations. Whatever you choose to celebrate – make it a ritual. Celebrate that holiday every year no matter where you are or who you are with at that time.
This year – we will be doing a take on the pioneers who lived in Kansas. Several of our friends in Roatan will be meeting us on the pier for “Pie” and “Beers.” Thanks to Heather a friend from college, who told about this type of celebration and it seemed perfect for my annual Kansas Day party on Roatan.
Here is one of my favorite stories about Kansas, God, and a pet. (Sounds like a great country western song.)
God was missing for six days. Eventually, Michael, the archangel found him, resting on the seventh day.
He inquired, “Where have you been?”
God smiled deeply and proudly pointed downwards through the clouds, “Look, Michael. Look what I’ve made.”
Archangel Michael looked puzzled, and said, “What is it?”
“It’s a planet,” replied God, and I’ve put life on it. I’m going to call it Earth, and it’s going to be a place to test Balance.”
“Balance?” inquired Michael, “I’m still confused.”
God explained, pointing to different parts of Earth. “For example, part of Europe will be a place of great opportunity and wealth, while another part of Europe is going to be poor. Over here I’ve placed a continent of white people, and over there is a continent of darker people. Balance in all things.”
God continued pointing to different countries. “This one will be scorching hot, while this one will be cold and covered in ice.”
The Archangel, impressed by God’s work, then pointed to a land area and said, “What’s that one?”
“That’s Kansas, the most glorious place on earth. There are beautiful rolling hills and prairies, rivers and streams, lakes, forests, hills, and the plains.” Then God Said, “This is Kansas, the center of America.
The people of Kansas are going to be handsome, modest, intelligent, and humorous, and they are going to travel the world. They will be extremely sociable, hardworking, high achieving, carriers of peace, and producers of good things. They will care about animals and have pets.”
Michael gasped in wonder and admiration, but then asked, “But what about balance, God? You said there would be a balance.”
God smiled, “I did have to put a few idiots in other parts of the world.”
I always wonder how strong my own child’s sense of identity or “where they are from” will be since they have spent all of their lives in chunks of four or five years on different continents. As my one child said, ” I am 4% Australian since I was born there and lived there for a while. I am 25 % African since I have lived there a long time. I am 25% American since I spend most of my summer holidays there. I am 45% Indonesian since I lived there so long. Of course, I am 1 % Thai since this is my home now.” He had decided to map his timeline by months so it would reflect the summer months he spent in the USA.
On another note, I wonder how he will introduce himself to peers in college? Or more importantly, will he be able to find that small of group friends that have grown up like him, a citizen of the world.
But seriously, You have got to love most titles of Country Western Songs! Here are a few of my favorite:
Julia’s top 20 hits for any Kansas Day Party anywhere!
Please note these are not in any specific order, I just hit random and let the party begin!
1. Get Off the Table, Mabel (the $2 is for the Beer)
2. I Don’t Care if it Rains or Freezes, As Long as I Have My Plastic Jesus
3. I Just Can’t Get Over How You’ve Gotten Over Me
4. I Went Back to My Fourth Wife for the Third Time and Gave Her a Second Chance to Make a First Class Fool Out of Me
5. I’ve Got Tears in my Ears from Lyin’ on my Back in my Bed While I Cry Over You
6. She Thinks My Tractor’s Sexy
7. You Don’t Have to Call Me Darlin’, Darlin’ – You Never Even Called Me By My Name
8. At the Gas Station of Love, I Got the Self-Service Pump
9. Get Your Tongue Outta My Mouth ‘Cause I’m Kissing You Goodbye
10. It’s Hard to Kiss the Lips at Night that Chew Your Ass Out All Day Long
11. Billy Broke My Heart at Walgreens, and I Cried All the Way to Sears
12. I Was Looking Back to See If You Were Looking Back to See If I Was Looking Back to See if You Were Looking Back at Me
13. Liked You Better Before I Knew You So Well
14. Your Negligee Has Turned To a Flannel Nightgown
15. The Last Word In Lonesome Is “Me”
16. Walk Out Backwards Slowly, So I’ll Think You’re Walking In
17. And There was Grandma, Swingin’ on the Outhouse Door, Without a Shirt On
18. How Can I Miss You When You Won’t Go Away?
19. She Got The Ring, And I Got The Finger
20. They May Put Me In Prison, But They Can’t Stop My Face From Breaking Out